NOT EVERY MARRIAGE LAST LONGER -WHY?.

WHAT IS MARRIAGE?.

Marriage is the union between two people i.e, male and female that are  involved in strong relationship, sharing the same view ,interest and goal. Both economically, spiritually, physically, mentally, academically and in other spheres of life.This relationship must solely be centered on love not any other thing like money, status, influence, position, pressure, frustration, family background, friendship and so on.

 

Does every marriage last longer?.The answer is capital NO,not all marriage last longer because of little challenges faced by couples. These challenges are as follows;

LACK OF TRUST.

UNEMPLOYMENT.

CHILD OUT OF WEDLOCK.

CARELESSNESS.

STINGINESS.

BAD MANNER.

PRIDE.

NONCHALANT ATTITUDE.

FAMILY BACKGROUND.

CHILDLESSNESS.

ILLITERACY.

FRIENDSHIP.

PARTYING.

UNCOMMITTED.

LAZINESS.

DISRESPECTFUL ACT.

MONEY.

There are still many more  reasons based on individual reasoning, thought, believe.These things should not be couple’s problem, they should be able to handle it on their own with nobody’s help if only they truly love each other as claimed. Parent should stop poking nose into their children’s affairs not everything you must know about your children’s marriage free them in as much as you have married them out. So let them handle things themselves, the way it suites them. Also parents should stop the habit of marrying out their children to their friend’s children because they were of the same class/status,it is not a polite habit and should be shunned totally. Your friend might not be your children’s friend. Do not take the total control of their life,they also have right over themselves to decide what is best for them.

SOLUTION TO THESE CHALLENGES ARE;

LET YOUR FAMILY STAY CLEAR OUT OF YOUR MARRIAGE.

LEARN HOW TO SAY SORRY EVEN WHEN YOU ARE NOT AT FAULT.

SETTLE DISPUTE ON YOUR OWN WITH NOBODY’S INTERFERENCE.

LET YOUR FRIENDS KNOW THE DIFFERENCE BETWEEN WHEN YOU ARE ALONE AND WHEN YOU ARE MARRIED.

DO NOT DO THINGS WITHOUT YOUR PARTNER’S CONSENT.

LET YOUR PARTNER KNOWS ABOUT YOUR BUSINESSES.

DO NOT TELL YOUR RELATIVES, FAMILY AND FRIENDS ABOUT YOUR PARTNER’S FLAWS.

RESPECT YOUR PARTNER EITHER MALE OR FEMALE.

SEEK ADVICE FROM YOUR PARTNER ON ALMOST EVERYTHING.

EAT WITH YOUR PARTNER,GO OUT WITH YOUR PARTNER,ATTEND OCCASIONS WITH YOUR PARTNER.

STAND BY YOUR PARTNER ON EVERYTHING EVEN IF IT COST YOU A LOT.

DO NOT SHARE YOUR INTIMACY WITH OUTSIDER ONLY WITH YOUR PARTNER.

LOVE YOUR PARTNER NO MATTER THE CIRCUMSTANCES.

ALWAYS BE ATTENTIVE TO YOUR PARTNER.

TRUST YOUR PARTNER WITH EVERYTHING AND ON EVERYTHING.

WITH THESE THINGS YOUR MARRIAGE WILL LAST LONG AND ONLY DEATH WILL BE ABLE TO DO YOU APART.